I'm beginning to disagree with this introvert/extrovert distinction. I think we can be both and we should be. I've always considered myself and have been told by others that I am an introvert, meaning I enjoy spending time alone and actually need the time to refuel away from others, I'm mostly soft-spoken, and very introspective. That is pretty much true but I also think I have an extrovert side to me...
Some moments I do like to be alone but I enjoy being with people just as much. I love laughter and serious conversations, I like the work I do which involves working with people and helping others. I enjoy talking to friends and family and spending time with them. It feels good to have relationships and people who care about you and want to spend time with you.
The Reader's Digest Great Encyclopedic Dictionary's definition of extroversion is "the turning of one's self-interest toward objects and actions outside the self rather than toward one's own thoughts or feelings." I realize I need to bring out more of this side of me! It's in there! Contrary to my introverted side that focuses on myself a lot, I am reminded of the verses in Phillipians 2, "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others." (vs. 3-4)
What I'm realizing now is there has to be a balance between the two, not an either/or. I should be aware of myself and of others. Bottom line, I'm not going to say I'm an introvert anymore.
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